As new parents awaiting your baby’s arrival, it can be a very nerve-wracking experience with all the medical aspects and decisions surrounding the birth itself. That should be all you have to worry about…but it isn’t… now it’s time to hit those mega baby stores and embrace your little bundle of joy with lots and lots of stuff!
The amount of manufactured products around the whole baby business is so overwhelming, it can make your head spin. I walked in and out of a mega-baby product store four times before I bought anything. The amount of choices alone paralyzed my decision making process. Add to that being pregnant with “baby-brain”. I felt extremely overwhelmed. Finally on our fourth trip, we bought a bathtub. My husband had such a headache from the noise and lack of oxygen in those places I promised him we would do the rest online! Soon,we became masters at finding great baby products online with free shipping! A simple Google search along with the keyword free shipping will save you time, money and headaches. There are also many sites that offer free coupons to most if not all baby product companies.
At a very personal and special time in one’s life, it is normal to feel overwhelmed by all this materialism. As the due date was approaches, you are suddenly thrust into a world of shopping that you probably never new existed. Sometimes there are certain feelings of guilt in not being overjoyed by the shopping experience. Fortunately, you are not the only one who might feel this way.
Over the last ten years I have worked in a variety of settings including Medical and Day Spas, Yoga studios, Gyms and Chiropractors offices. This wide and varied experience has given me a very sensitive and shrewd understanding of the spa experience. I understand what goes on behind the scenes and can spot a shotty establishment pretty quick. My background and New York State License in Massage Therapy also makes me an extra picky consumer. Over the next few weeks and months I will be reviewing several New York Spas and sharing my experience for those of you who live in or are visiting the New York City area.
Nothing brings up more controversial feelings and debate in parenting than the topic of how we sleep with our baby. As a friend of mine puts it, “it is the lightening rod topic.” What I find so incredible about this subject and many things about parenting in general is how invasive people can be when discussing it. Maybe it stems from some deep-seeded tribal wisdom or consciousness that we are not attached to anymore. A way of protecting the young. The amount of advice offered so freely is amazing and can make even the most outspoken person’s head spin!
There have been many great and well informed articles written on the whole topic of co-sleeping and I encourage you to read the experts’ perspective on each side. Listen and notice how you feel while you are reading their words and make a sensible choice for yourself. This is important before you disclose your decision to relatives or even close friends so you know how you feel about it. It is always helpful to have some expert advice backing you up when dealing with others’ opinions on what you should be doing with your child.
If you ‘re in a rush for last minute holiday shopping or have high expectations on what gifts you may give this year. Here’s a thought, sometimes a meaningful gesture is worth more than a purchased gift. Consider offering assistance to your loved ones and friends that are simple and practical, but are highly appreciated. Your time and consideration are worth a great deal, and will be valued and remembered for a long time. If you are strapped for cash like many people this year, this is a less stressful way to celebrate that can deepen bonds between family members instead of always having a monetary attachment to your values!
So instead of rushing to the mall and dipping into your savings to buy the perfect gift, here are some sensible holiday gift ideas that are cost effective and helpful…[…]